
Becky from Waitress
ESFP
by Rebecca
requested by anonymous
Extroverted Sensing (Se)
“I didn’t plan it, but that’s life, and I’m finally feeling alive. It’s not right, but it’s mine, and it’s finally something to feel.”
Becky’s life with her husband and in the diner can leave her feeling numb, and she does all that she can to break free and feel something again. She explains that her affair with Cal happened suddenly and without much thought – it was an opportunity that presented itself and she took it. She is not a typical thrill seeker, but she is far from afraid of excitement of any kind coming into her life, particularly if it breaks through the monotony. She understands the practicalities of life and is able to stay grounded in this way. Still, not ever wanting more would leave her suffocated – she takes chances when they come.Introverted Feeling (Fi)
“I don’t claim to be proud, but my head won’t be hung in shame.”
Becky is loyal to those she cares about, but isn’t afraid to call something out if she feels it is wrong. Despite having an affair, she refuses to be ashamed of her actions, instead understanding where they came from. When Jenna starts to shame her, Becky turns the tables to show that Jenna is doing the same thing and doesn’t have any moral superiority. Most of the time, Becky is deeply caring for her fellow waitresses, helping them in whatever way she can. No matter what happens, she provides support for them while staying true to herself and her own morals.Extroverted Thinking (Te)
“C’mon sweetie, it’s better to know.”
Becky’s logic is strong, preventing her emotions from overriding all of her sense even in intense moments. She is confident in her knowledge of a situation: if she knows what has happened, she knows well what will happen. She tends towards a no-nonsense demeanor, keeping things to the point as much as she can among her more nervous coworkers. She is witty, twisting the reality of a situation into quips that come naturally. Her personality is strong, and she isn’t afraid of taking charge of a situation if it seems fit.Introverted Intuition (Ni)
“I wouldn’t call this place a happy end, but I been ‘round the block and just came back again.”
Becky isn’t always considering the long-ranging implications of her actions, preferring to live in the moment. She is aware of the state of her life and understands that she needs to find comfort within it rather than beyond. Her dreams for the future are more vague: she just wants a happier life where she can experience and feel more. Her more pragmatic approach to life is at odds with senseless idealism, but that doesn’t mean she is immune to wishing for something more. She knows that fully achieving her wildest dreams is not likely, so she is able to find happiness in the opportunities she does seize.






